Are you spending your hard-earned money on strippers?
Do you simply have a fetish for these types of women? Do you have a fantasy of having sex with strippers? Are you trying to date strippers? Are you having any luck dating strippers? Do you want to date a stripper?
First, strippers are a unique type of woman, however, I feel your time is best served pursuing other women in other types of professions, not because strippers are horrible women, but because they are not easily approachable in a traditional way. However, If you really want to date a stripper, then here are some extremely helpful secrets that you can use – even this weekend.
How to Date Strippers.
1. You’re inside an erotic stripper night club. You’re watching all the dancers. You’ve chosen one stripper in particular you really like. Now what?
You’re probably are already aware that NOT all dancers are alike. Many of them come from different back grounds and educational levels. Some have children and some do not. Some dancers are married and some are single.
Many dancers have boyfriends and some do not. So, do not assume all “strippers” are alike. Some strippers are very “straight” (meaning ike men) and some strippers are “lesbians”. Yep, that’s right!
Some are bisexual and some are not. Some strippers take drugs and some strippers NEVER take drugs. Some dancers are total lesbians and have nothing to do with men other than entertain and ‘take’ their money.
Never – ever assume that because they are strippers, they must be promiscuous or pure sluts. Nothing could be further from the truth= matter of fact – almost the opposite it true for many strippers.
On the other hand some strippers are also “prostitutes” and will fuck a man if he has enough money. Some strippers are hard-working girls who do their job, save their money and go straight home after work. Some strippers are college girls.
Why do you want to date a stripper? Strippers get lots of attention in the club and outside of the club. If your girlfriend was a stripper would you mind hundreds of men lusting for her – just the way you did?
If you can’t handle your partner receiving plenty of admiration, dating a stripper is probably not for you. Don’t go into a relationship with a stripper thinking you will change her occupation or change her lifestyle. Either accept that she’s a stripper or find another sexy girls who isn’t in this type of work.
3. If you still want to date a stripper, then it is important you find a Stipper club that is safe to visit on occasion. Usually the type of club you go to will determine the type of women that work there. Some clubs are characterized by very young inexperienced girls, jaded veterans, gold diggers, prostitutes or all of the above.
Hint – there are certain strippers that you should avoid – unless you just enjoy chaos or danger. Do not get involved with strippers who are also prostitutes, drug users, or those who are attracted to the gangster element.
These type of strippers will get you in trouble. If you happen to be in the wrong place at the wrong time with the wrong person, you could be taking a ride in the paddy wagon with everyone else.
Go for the gentlemen’s clubs. Clubs were mostly business men dressed in suits are meeting clients. This is where you can usually find more educated dancers, sometimes college students or even college graduates. These girls are usually far more interesting and open to socializing outside of their workplace.
4. Go to the club before the night gets too busy. Go to the club right after they open in the afternoon. Usually the club very few customers if any. Most of the strippers are relaxing and talking among themselves. This is the best moment to approach them without feeling under pressure because they are still not in their crazy money-making mode.
5. Be yourself. Obviously, you should be friendly, but not too friendly and do not be complimentary. Do not tell her how “hot” she looks. You do not want her to think you’re just another “John” or lust filled customer waiting for a lap dance.
Treat her like a non-stripper. Lots of these girls are used to getting the worst treatment from men who regard them as a disposable pieces of meat. Listen to them, give them a chance to open up and tell you their stories (which are usually interesting), and show genuine interest in their activities outside the strip-club.
Don’t focus your attention on their bodies. Everybody likes compliments but they get them all the time. Use eye contact, not leg and never gawk at their boobs.
Instead of complimenting their body parts, tell them they look good in their new outfit (compliment the color scheme or something – tell her you like her hair.) or they are really improving a lot on the pole-tricks, stuff like that.
Ask them about books, movies, school, family, hobbies, where they have traveled, life. If you do this, they will know you look at them as a real person unlike most men who come in there.
6. You may tip her on stage, but NEVER ask for a lap dance from anyone. If you pay for a lap dance from her, she will consider you a “regular”. Do not talk to long to her while she’s working. If you start paying her for her time (for lap dances, etc.) then you have begun a business relationship and she may never see you for a “date” outside of her workpace.
7. When the club gets busy, it’s time for you to leave and let her make money. This move is telling her you do not want to interfere with her money or her work. Tell her good-bye and you’ll see her another time. With several visits, she’ll hopefully smile when you visit and you might become a breath of fresh air for her each time you walk in. If she doesn’t, it may be that she strictly doesn’t date any customers of the club, or she may be dating someone already. Strippers are like other women, some are very loyal.
8. Ask her for a date when it’s right. If she isn’t willing to meet you outside the club for a cup of coffee or breakfast or dinner, she’s probably just playing you. Yes, she might be reluctant and cautious, but if she turns you down 2 or 3 times, there’s no need to pursue her anymore.
You could be wasting your time. If she does agree to go on a date, do something sweet and romantic. She is a stripper, men buy her presents all the time. Don’t spend a lot of money impressing her. Try to do something that’s related to a common interest that you’ve discovered in your conversations with her.
One more thing, don’t ever assume that because she is a stripper she will have sex with you right away. On the contrary, some of these stippers will take their time with you. They are cautious and usually have no trust for men because they deal with the worst side of men on a daily basis, so be patient and show her that you are different than all the rest of the disrespecting characters.
9. Be accepting of her type of job. If one thing leads to another and you end up dating a stripper, she will appreciate that you understand that she is working and making more money trying her best to improve her life.
She may have chosen the stripper profession in order to improve her life (earning more money) so she can pursue other avenues. Some strippers do have higher aspirations – and many save their money.
After all most strippers earn much more than traditional jobs pay. Strippers sleep mostly during the day because they work into the wee hours. Make sure you give her the space she needs to be who she is.
10. If the stripper becomes your girlfriend, do not go
to where she works anymore. It’s just not good. The last thing a stripper needs is to have the customers know her boyfriend is watching you.
Her tips will take a nose dive and you’ll kill her business. HINT: It is best to meet a stripper at a gym or some other place other than the club where she works – if that’s possible.
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